Indeed, this is exactly what we do see. Despite what may be your first guess about this, interacting galaxies, even when the actually "collide", don't actually make a lot of physical contact. Thus, the stars seldom bump into each other (the is a lot of empty space in galaxies). What does happen, however, is that he galaxies get distorted. These distortions are tidal effects, which you have studied.
First off, let's see some galaxies that have interacted. Some of the loveliest galaxies in the universe were shaped mainly in this manner. Lucky for us, Hubble has taken some really slick shots of some very pretty galaxies, so we can see lots of these.
By the same token, The Mice are also a good, early example. Again, we didn't really understand what was up here right off, but clearly something is happening.
For more peculiar galaxies, you can go to An Arp catalogue and go click-crazy!
One such problem is that we saw more tails than bridges (tails spew from the far sides of the interacting pairs, while bridges connect them). The forces should be greater in the middle, so why don't we see more structure there (you may want to record your ideas here)?
I have prepared a Mathematica (isn't it cool when that doesn't italicize?) Notebook for you to try this yourself. Read over my comments and see if you can understand the set-up. It should be fairly familiar to you.
By keeping the number of stars small, the code should run in a reasonable time. Try executing the code, and see what you can get. Try some different initial parameters to see what happens. Record your findings and observations.
If you are so inclined, I have a few notebooks in which I ran the simulation for days at a time to get more accurate, nicer results. Ask me to show them to you, if you want to see...
Hopefully, you got some nice, spiral arm structures going. The Toomre brothers found that when the galaxies passed with partial contact and the interlopping galaxy was moving in the same direction as the target galaxy was rotating, they got nice spiral arms. This appears to be one source or spiral arm structure, although it does not seem to explain all such.
To see some nice spiral armed galaxies, try The Whirlpool Galaxy (my personal favorite). Notice the small companion? On over-exposed images, the tidal bridge shows up very clearly, by the way.
To investigate, open FaceOnTidal1.nb. This is my first approximation to the face on collision. I assumed that the stars from the first galaxy would stay in the plane of the galaxy (not true, of course, by I reserve the right to approximate as far as I see fit :). Toy with this for a bit and notice what kind of structures you see.
For a more realistic approach, try FaceOnTidal2.nb. This still neglects the interactions between the nuclei, unfortunately. But it is in 3D, which is always cool. Give it a go, and record your findings.
If you want to see a good example of this kind of interaction, hop to STScI, and see The Cartwheel Galaxy. Read the caption that goes with the picture, since it explains this much better than I can ever manage.